How can I find Peace

Query: I pray and love god, please advice, how can I find peace and make others happy.

Vijay Kumar:
You need to have a positive attitude of life in all matters whatsoever to achieve something in life. Your negative attitude keeps pulling you down ... this attitude has prompted you to write that your mother has gone through hell ... this is not correct to state because with the death of the husband every woman suffers ... does not mean our life becomes hell!

We must always look forward to living a positive life ... we only get what is due to us ... nothing more or less. You cannot expect a mango to grow on a Neem tree. We reap only what we sow. Do not get disheartened by what I write but simply concentrate on the goal of life you want to achieve ... I repeat "God is always there to help you provided you keep a positive attitude of life".

From your writings I can deduce that your mother must be holding God responsible for her fate ... it is not true ... you must bring about a change in her thinking as you grow ... it is only the change in mental attitude which differentiates a laborer from a King. Your calling yourself unlucky is a damaging negative attitude towards life.

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Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" Vijay Kumar... The Man who Realized God in 1993 on Finding Peace. For more on how can i find peace visit - finding peace

Full text of query: My father passed away when I was young, my mother has undergone hell to bring us up. Somehow, I am very unlucky and very sick of my self. I suffer alot and still suffering, I cant achieve what i want, I am not bad as per my knowlwdged, I dont do bad things, I pray and love god, please advice, how can I find peace and make others happy.