Query:
By following
only three formulae given by you is enough for the living... I don't agree on
it -- one can't get the healthy life just thinking pure, forgiving all forget
all. For an instance, if you forgive the person who has killed one of your relatives
what is the guarantee that he will not be encouraged by it and will not take granted
of it.
Vijay
Kumar:
Cool
down ... you have got it all wrong! You need not forgive
one ... keep the grudge ... life would become a hell
short while from now. You really don't want that ...
do you. Life and death is in the hands of Jahapanah
(God Almighty of the cosmos). Death does not come
on its own. We reap what we sow ... nothing more or
less. Accidental deaths do take place but rarely.
The system of God is justly ordered. Nothing can go
wrong on its own. If the society is bent upon doing
wrong ... does it mean I start keeping a grudge ...
no we must set a target of life wherein we shall one-day
be able to eradicate the ills facing the society.
The relative when in future finds you in a stronger
position ... it will be he who shall hide his face
from the society ... lest he may be punished for his
deeds in the past.
We
have to forgive under all circumstances lest the anger within us would ruin us
forever. We may lose our mental balance one-day. Think not what the other thinks
of you ... but what you think of him. Does this mean we keep off guard ... no,
we have to keep our cool and not lose patience. This particular aspect of life
I shall better demonstrate the day I shall be able to give a program on TV. Wait
till then...
Always
there to clarify your queries (send
your query),
Full text of query:
By following
three formulae given by you is enough for the living... I don't agree on it -
one can't get the healthy life just thinking pure, forgiving all forget all. For
an instance, if you forgive the person who has killed one of your relatives what
is the guarantee that he will not be encouraged by it and will not take granted
of it.